The paparazzi crush would not scare those kids if they are with someone familiar with them. That pap crush would especially not scare them if they got used to it (Britney was letting them get used to it). I have seen many pap videos of Britney with her kids and they never looked scared of the paps. Sean was looking at them with a curiosity and interest. He did not understand what the fuss was about but never SCARED.

It is not because Kevin thought the kids would be scared without their parents that he refused them to go to Louisiana. He goes out of State and leaves those kids with nannies for days. Those kids are very used to their grandparents and I don’t think they would be scared to be with them in Louisiana. Kevin just wants control over the kids.

Come on! How can Kevin ask a two and one year old if they want to go to Louisiana?? And they answered back that they don’t want to part with their daddy?? LOL, come on now. These kids are too young to understand that question or have an answer.

What I don’t understand is why some parents find it hard to trust grandparents with their kids for days but they have no objections to trusting them with nannies for days when they are out of State?? These are grandparents who want to spend time with and take care of their grandkids for FREE. Nannies or daycare centers won’t take care of kids if you don’t pay them. A lot of accidents happen at daycare centers and in-nanny care too. For the most time, kids are safe with grandparents who truly care and watch out.

Brits children are very young. Young children require ALOT of care and constant attention and vigilance because at that age because they don’t know enough to not stick a finger into an electrical outlet or not go into a pool when no one is around because they can’t swim. Even if you tell them something a dozen times, they might still do something and get hurt if you are not watching them.

Maybe Kevin did not feel comfortable having them be so far away from him for several days in an environment he is not completely sure is baby proofed or baby safe. Or perhaps he didn’t want to go to Lousiana himself and he simply didn’t want the kids away from their parents because they might be scared. Maybe he asked the kids, and the kids didn’t want to go because they didn’t want to leave their daddy or preferred to spend that holiday with their dad and friends at home. There could be many reasons he didn’t allow them to go to Lousiana. I don’t think that decision makes him a bad person.

I know I wouldn’t allow my kids at that age to go to another state with their grandparents if I or my husband was not going to be there with them. There will be plenty of time for the kids to visit the Louisiana home when they are older and things have stabilized. I have no doubt that Britney’s boys will visit their new cousin from Jamie Lynne some day in Lousiana. They’ll work something out.

I feel bad for the boys. Kids should be able to go to the playground and enjoy the outdoors. I am with you on that, but the crush of paps is probably very scary to them because they don’t understand what is going on. If Kevin takes them out alot, people would jump on his back for exploiting his kids and exposing them to paps. If he keeps them home, then he’s not giving them a normal childhood. It’s very sad that the boys can’t go out and do what other kids do. I feel for them because I don’t know if is even possible at this point to give them a “normal” childhood.

Those kids will never do things like camping, fishing, hiking, or visit a restaurant or mall with Kevin as father. He will argue that the media will be there and therefore they need protecting. He allows them their evening rides in their toy cars where the media shots them anyway. Why can’t he just let them ride their toys inside his house perimeter where nobody will take pictures?? Even him, in his sick twisted mind knows that there is no such a thing as protecting them from the media. There is only one thing and that is control. He knew he was having kids with a celebrity. Why didn’t he think it through before he laid down? No, ma’am. He was only thinking about how she would be able to support those kids for him. And to think of him teaching her parental accountability is an insult!!!

I like the style Britney was raising her kids with cameras in their faces. Once they get exposed to that, they get used to it, and soon it would not bother them. It’s called adaption and resilience.

It’s the parents fault they allow the TV stations to raise their kids for them. If a TV is good enough for the parent, it’s good enough for the kid. Otherwise, they should not have TVs to start with if they feel the TVs are doing harm to their kids. But for someone (Kevin) to think that a mall, a restaurant, a boat, a plane, a car, a camera guy can do harm to a child is ridiculous.

As a parent to a young boy, I do protect him the very best I can. He will not grow up a sissy, but he is very well protected. Children are growing up way to fast in society today. Children need to be allowed to be just that, children. Many people can take the blame for that … parents, schools, tv … The world is a scary, scary place.

Sorry about that tangent … I just had to say that. It really has nothing to do with Britney or Kevin … and was not meant to defend either. Just my opinion!

Kevin and Britney have a right to decide where their kids should have visitors. I think nothing against that. What I’m against is the way Kevin refuses to have those kids visit their grandparents in Louisiana. Lynne Spears asked him if she can have her grandkids for a certain holiday with family in Louisiana and he refused. Britney can be in Louisiana if she wants she just chose not to. Jamie Lynn lives there and will raise her kids there. The place is safe, they live in a mansion.

Remember when Kevin raise hell on Britney for taking the kids with her to Las Vegas? Yet he took them there on a separate trip and celebrated his birthday with Shar and his mom. I heard he will celebrate his 30th b’day soon and I’m waiting to see where he will take those kids. That hypocrite! He wants total control over those kids. He is going to raise sissies, watch. You can not protect kids from the real world they will have to live in.

Are you joking? Besides the obvious security, liability, and ORDERS FROM THE COURT that prohibit each parent from allowing the children to go out of state, — KEVIN has every right to determine WHERE his children have visitors.

How do you even know the grandparents WANT the kids in Louisiana. Britney sure as hell can’t be there.

This is the most absurd and ridiculous assumption you’ve made thus far Rehema. You are continuously assuming, when neither you or I KNOW FOR SURE the concrete facts. You are solely basing your feelings on your own ASSUMPTIONS and conclusions. Many of which are extremely exaggerations of the truth.

You will never convince me in a million years that Britney is a complete victim in this whole ordeal. If anything, I believe she is at least 50% , if not more, responsible for everything that has taken place. And should be held accountable for HER decisions.

And in my opinion, anyone who thinks otherwise, fan or not, is being completely irrational.

I would dislike him though, if he brands her a bad mother (post break up) after praising her motherhood on TV numerous times (pre-break up). That’s why I dislike Kevin. It’s that hidden agenda and a thirst for revenge. I like people who are straight with each other like Adnan has been with Britney. He told her straight out that Sam and Alli were not good people to surround herself with at a time when they were her only close confidants. He knew she could’ve breaken up with him for that but he took his chances. There he was on ET saying that stuff and then we saw him at Britney’s with Sam and Alli. He wasn’t scared of them! At this point, he thinks she is a good mother and he sleeps with her (sleeping makes babies). That tells me he thinks she is good enough of a mother to have kids with. BUT LET HIM TRY THE KEVIN CRAP AFTER A BREAK UP! I won’t see him eye to eye on that one!

I’m passionate about Britney because I’ve never in my life come across a person of her means who has been served with such injustice, on all ends. Her kindness has done her a disservice and even if she is going through all this, I still want her to stay true to her kindness. She scores more points with me when even after what Kevin has done to her, she can still give a regular guy like Adnan a chance. This woman has a big heart!

We never know EVerything. We can assume we do, but we don’t because we are not living these peoples lives. We know what the media portrays or wants us to know. Therefore, how can we actually DISLIKE or hate someone when we don’t fully understand the situation.

Bet your bottom dollar the media is not done tearing Adnan to pieces. They will do everything in their power to make you ASSume he is the bad guy. So just as those of you who hate Kevin now, trust me, you will surely be hating Adnan in the near future.

I have heard rumors of paps fighting and vandalizing each other’s cars. Not sure how true those are, but I imagine it’s a jungle out there and a strong tribe has a better chance against the competition. Maybe it’s not a full blown business association. Maybe they’re just a bunch of dudes who are all friends and like to hang out with each other in their off time. Who knows?

I don’t really care either way what the relationship between JFX and FPX is, just as long as they keep up the good work providing us with Adnan and Britney news, photos, and videos.

I was going to list the things that Kevin did wrong that I didn’t like, but you are right. Every one makes mistakes. Even Britney has made mistakes. For whatever the reason, be it drugs, mental disorder, immaturity, or whatever, Britney has not made good choices about certain things. I wouldn’t have done the things that Britney has done to lose or endanger her kids, but I can still cheer her on and hope that she gets her life together. I can still enjoy hearing about her life. Though she is flawed and has made mistakes, I am still a fan of Britney’s.

For every reason I was going to list against Kevin, I could think of another person I liked who had committed a similar offense who I have remained a fan of or a friend with. I can’t explain to you why I want to cheer one person on and not another. I guess I like who I like, rational or not. For some reason, I just don’t like Kevin. Maybe it’s a vibe, instinct, or something intangible, but I have not been impressed with what I had seen of him during their marriage and during past interviews. He has just rubbed me the wrong way. Though I dislike him, I don’t feel any hatred toward him at all. I always liked how he allowed the Britney’s folks to see the grandkids. Children benefit from a relationship with their grandparents. I do wish him well in his life and would never wish ill will on him. He is after all the father of Britney’s kids. I just chose not to be a fan of his.

So the only conclusion I can make is that my reasons for being a fan of Adnan and Britney and not Kevin are NOT rational. If I were thinking perfectly rationally and only wanted perfect people to support, I wouldn’t be a fan of Britney or Adnan either. I am still Britney fan (however irrational that is), but I don’t have blind devotion. I see where poor choices have been made, and ultimately, a person is responsible for themselves. I do make an exception for certain mental illnesses. Mental illness can severely impact a person’s reasoning and decision making.

You are right, if Adnan screwed Brit over, I wouldn’t be on Team Adnan any longer. Maybe that makes me a fair-weather Adnan fan. But since Adnan hasn’t done anything to hurt Brit, I am still firmly on Team Adnan.

I disagree that fans are enablers to bad behavior. I don’t think celebrities live their lives or make major life choices based on what their fans say. If Britney had been listening to her fans, she would have shown up to her custody hearings and had a huge comeback by now. We fans may buy a celebrity’s music or see their movies, but we aren’t responsible for head shaving, umbrella bashing, baby lap driving, pantiless photos, refusal to go to custody hearings, etc. any more than Kevin is. Some really die hard fans would support and defend Britney no matter what she did, but that doesn’t make them enablers or responsible for her behavior. Come on now. Let’s be rational, Doc!

So maybe fan-dom is a little bit like love. It comes from the heart more than the head. It is irrational and fickle. It can run deep and last a lifetime, or it can wither and turn cold. It can inspire great passion as seen from the heated posts between you and Rehema. Rehema is clearly a passionate person. Bet that goes for the bedroom too, Rehema!

Maybe we can agree to disagree about Kevin, so we can get on with our daily business of supporting Britney, Adnan, JFX, and/or whoever we choose to cheer on and support. Go Team Britney! Go Team Adnan! Go JFX!

Now let’s play nice. Can’t we all just get along?

What exactly could be improper at Brit’s house? A mother naked in front of kids who are too young to remember this? My God, Sean is 2, Jayden is 1.

I believe she has been making rational decisions before this but you have to remember motherhood accountability is new to her. It’s not like she was a mother before Sean and Jayden. So you think Kevin is actually teaching Britney parental accountability? Accountability for two kids for which he contributes nothing financially? Is this the kind of person who should teach parental accountability? Lord, God help us!

In my book, Britney has shown more parental accountability than Kevin. Kids don’t eat hugs, tacks into bed, plays, they eat food which is bought by mommy’s money. Kids sleep in a house that was bought by (mommy’s money) or money gotten from being associated with mommy. If that ain’t parental responsibility and accountability, then I don’t know what that is.

Look, had Britney been a regular woman working as a dance instructor; Would Kevin as a dancer have agreed to have two children with her (not forgetting he already had two)? In my mind, NO. Kevin is not stupid. He would NOT want that “financial responsibility and accountability” added on his burdens. But he agreed to have kids with a RICH Britney who would be held “accountable.” This man knows how to AVOID responsibilities and to think that it is him who is teaching Britney parental accountability is beyond. Shar J. never asked for C/support from him. There he was again, made sure she makes enough to take care of that responsibility before getting her pregnant. Where is the parental financial accountability?

As a fan, I do not understand what I’m enabling Britney with. LOL. Deciding to waste my money on her music instead of wasting it on another artist who is boring, content, and confirmed? NO. I work hard for mine and I won’t spend it on some boring artist who won’t need “enablers” because he/she learned accountability and does everything right. It takes more than just music to win me over. Britney has music and an art to her personality; the two things I value in artists.

I think it is ridiculous for you to assume that that Kevin was awarded full custody solely based upon Kevin’s teams accusations. They, along with her assistant, had more than sufficient proof of some sort of improper environment.

I think it is MORE than ridiculous for you to sit here and defend her. Regardless of my diehard loyalty, the facts remains the facts. Kevin is not the sole reason for Britney’s current situation. Which leads me back to a few prior posts regarding accountability. Until she understands how and what things she has to be accountable for, she will never make rational decisions. I believe she is beginning to learn more everyday about accountability.

People like to endorse Lutfi, Federline, and Adnan as enablers. The truth is some of her biggest enablers are her own ‘biggest’ fans.

What I really want to say is that it is way past time for him to cry over how she is bad mom. We passed that point when he decided to have a second child with her after seeing what she did with the first.

Why stand up for the kids now when they have divorced? That’s the sinister element to all of this. Kevin is sour.

If Adnan gets her pregnant at this time when her motherly skills are under fire, I would not put blame on him. Why? Because here he is (like K-Fed was) praising her skills with kids. WHAT I WOULD BLAME AND DISTASTE HIM FOR IS IF THEY BREAK-UP AND THEN HE CRIES HOW BRITNEY IS NOT A GOOD MOTHER. HOW HIS CHILD IS NOT PROTECTED AROUND HER. HOW SHE MIGHT HARM THE KIDS.

Doc, does that not sound ridiculous? Do you see nothing wrong with such claims? Do you not see the sinister element?

Rehema, excellent arguement there. And no I have not been a public role model, nor been asked to, but let’s say for instance I was, or Chose to be one, because I believe at some point, people are allowed to ‘choose’ what they want to be.

So, if I were one, there are certain unwritten rules that I must realize I have to abide by. Knowing I am not perfect, I will in fact make an oops every so often, more often than none.

I can not completely and entirely defend the K-fed lawyer camp, but I also can not completely disagree with some of their tactics to make this a win/win situation for their client. That is their job. If I, on the other hand, were indeed the Plaintiff, I assure you, I would listen to my team and also abide by some of the unfair and unjustified rules, like, not going out at 2am to the gas station on a more than regular basis. I think that is pretty fair and reasonable. You don’t think? But then again, remember, I’m not public dual-time impregnanted person, what do I know.

At any rate, speaking as a father who loves children, I would not regard my 2nd born son as an “incident” but rather another blessing. Again, you are acting as if those children were made by Kevin alone. I’m sure Britney knows how to prevent pregnancy as well. Obviously they have a great sexual chemistry and then came Jayden.

So this is why you love Adnan. Because he has refrained from impregnation at a time like this.

Really? So IF she ever gets pregnant, god forbid. It is SOLELY the fault of Adnan’s SCHEME to impregnant her. For Britney has NOTHING to do with her own impregnantion.

Do you realize how ridiculous that sounds?