This has nothing to do with reading romance novels. Doc, you seem to have a lot of stereo types towards women. Always assumming the wrong thing and not communicating effectively.

Doc, I was not blaming K. Federline for all Britney’s actions but there is absolutely no doubt he contributed to her ‘breakdown’ – and in no uncertain terms – and far more so than is publicly revealed.

Note: That I like, admire and respect women does not indicate I am one.

Shar is no role model to women in general because she obviously has no symphathy for a fellow woman like Britney who fell in the same trap like her. Kevin lied to Britney before their marriage that everything between him and Shar was over. The poor girl only found out after she had consumated their relationship before they married. She had no idea Shar was pregnant at the time, all she knew was the he had Kori the little girl.

What moral authority does Shar have to attack Britney’s motherhood when she so can praise a useless man’s fatherhood?? Britney has provided all of the conditions that make up a stable environment (house, food, medical attention, love) for her boys. What has Kevin provided besides playing with the boys and tucking them to bed? Why would a woman like Shar say bad things about Britney when she is doing everything right? Why would Shar say everything good about Kevin who does nothing right?

Oh, She is saying all of that because she is the one who has kids with him. She has to deal with him and she will never stand up. Well, that’s not the way to inspire other women who desparately need child support and have to take their men to court for it.

Why doesn’t Shar have a close friendship with the fathers of her older kids? You have to remember Shar recieves no child support from her first and second baby daddys. In the real world where people have to take care of their kids, with bills to pay, and no pay raises coming in, that’s not the kind of example women and children need.

To your answer, Shar has publically “held” it together with grace because it was a De javu. It’s not the first time men have left her with children. Remember two men each with a child with her before Kevin. There was no way for her to act like she has never experienced it before. And how do we know how Shar acted with her first baby daddy drama? There was no press to cover that and I don’t think she will ever spill her dirt. One thing I know is that after Kevin, she had plastic surgery to soothe her twisted self-image, and vowed to have nothing to do with men again, and concentrate on raising her kids with Kevin, and I don’t know who she is raising the two older kids with!

But our kind hearted Britney—how could she hide such a new situation that wracked her emotions! Like Shar, Britney was introduced to such a situation and I don’t think she will ever act like she that again with any man. Ever heard of; The first cut is the deepest, What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger?? She will and is getting over it.

Doc, stop talking about how Kevin and Britney failed to discuss custody outside the courts. They did exactly that and agreed on 50/50 but that man decided to go to court and start up a very costly custody battle that’s costing Britney her cars and other unmentioned property. That argument is not holding up, Doc until you can dispprove that 50/50 never happened.

It’s true he came with nothing (and also left with a lot) but now that he has something he is contributing nothing care for the kids and the lawyers’ bills. He is busy spending it on $20,000 on jewelry, $2000 on tips and still he claims he has no income to the judge. One thing I know for sure is that the IRS will come for him. He has to get it in his head that he aint on Fresno streets no more where he did things under the table.

Rehema? Shar is no role model because Kevin played and lied to her? ?????

Everybody plays the fool, sometime. Ever hear that song? How is she(Shar) not a role model? Not once did she publicly fall apart, she held it all together, with grace. Remember, she has 4, not 2, but 4 children. Maintained a decent relationship with the father of her children(the last 2), and , as adults should, moved on with her life. You are, as usual, taking the definition of stockhalm syndrome way too far. Now true, her saying her and Kevin are ‘best friends’ may seem strange. However I believe she was using that phrase of endearment just to show that there are no hard feelings and they both have done their best to communicate and love each other for the sake of their children.

In no way do I believe Kevin wants to take his children from this “kind hearted woman” you name as Britney. He, if anything, wants his children in a supportive, safe, and stable environment which at not so long ago, they were obviously not being parented under any of those conditions. Please entertain me with your reasons or defense of this “kind hearted woman” providing this type of environment as said above in the year of 2007.

As far as your first comment about gender equality. Well Duh. As I said before, this “kind hearted woman” is definitely a victim of one or more of the 3 isms most prevalent in today’s society. Those being racism, sexism, and classism. Of course only the last two are applicable. There is no need to talk about equality. I’m old enough to know equality has never, and probably will never, completely exist. My initial point is that you, like many others, are claiming this woman, oops, sorry, I mean this “kind hearted woman” to be a complete victim, which is, again, completely not the case.

In the event she, this “kind hearted woman” was a man, you would not be sitting here defending his actions. He would be stripped of all his rights, forced to pay legal fees, and you and all the other women’s rights supporters would be shouting that justice has been served! My final point which I stated before is she knew what she was getting into. I don’t completely buy the whole Britney is mentally unstable crap. She, this “kind hearted woman” make have smoked a few or hit the bad stuff from time to time or had a few bouts of depression/mania, but she is not completely incoherent. Her camp has sold us that idea and many people have bought it. They know it is easier to embark on public sympathy rather than shame, by telling the truth that she loved to rock-n-roll like many other stars. Anyway, as I digree, my point is that she the beautiful “kind hearted woman” she is should be held accountable for her actions.

All this Doc talk about Shar living and learning is absurd. Shar is in total denial; ever heard of stockhalm syndrome? That’s her all the way. Kevin is her best friend in her mind and she deals with it better thinking that. I totally understand where Shar comes from on this one and I don’t agree with her. She is no role model for mothers or women in general. She like Evel mentioned, can not stand up, she has no defences again men of Kevin’s “type.” Everybody keeps attacking and calling Britney a villian for stealing Shar’s man when Shar was pregnant but the worst kind of women to fellow women are women entraped in stockhalm syndrome like Shar. They idolize their captors and will do anything to destroy fellow women in the way Shar media whores about Britney’s bad motherhood. It goes so far to a point where she believes she cares more about Britney’s kids than Britney because Kevin lets her babysit them to know their other half brother and sister. SICK!!!!!!!

Doc, you once said you are a father: Do you kids bear their mother’s last name as their last name or yours?? Once you answer that, we will move on and talk about equality. There is no such a thing as equality even when Hillary goes by the Clinton name but Bill does not go by Rodham. Does becoming the president of the United States make Hillary Clinton equal to Bill in traditional family sense? No. That only tells us she occupies the highest office in the land, but Bill as the male of the family is traditionally entrusted to head the family and act like a man.

I think you have forgotten that when Britney was pregnant with both children and during their infancy, Kevin was out and about with his friends. Not to mention other ladies, specially in Vegas. What your not admitting to is that he’s a made man and he knows it. These are the same acussation everyone has thrown at Adnan remember.

Kevin and Sam Lutfi are both clients of Sand at one point. Aquiring his service to promote positive image really says alot. Both of them being his client says alot. Him having custody of his children should not be enough in this type of situation. The court should have applied somekind of condition like having a job or else. They failed on that point specially when trhe only they can say is that if you are going to pick up your children, make sure you are 3 hours sober from liwour and marijuana. That was the type of conditions they set for him. What a F*ckin joke.

Anyway, I’ve been called all kinds of name in the last 11 years for doing the type work I do. I’m not defending myself here when I say that I really don’t care much what anyone else thinks. What I do is for my kids. My wife is a career woman. She can hold her own and then some. I don’t even have to work if I wish. But like a shark I have to keep moving or I’ll die. Being a man is something that you prove to no one else but you. Kevin does’nt even know that.

You give me 15 minute with that guy and I’ll show him how much of a bitch he is.

And Doc, I totally understand reverse sexism, but the problem here is that Britney is the bread and butter and the man. That makes Kevin the girl. So go figure.

If the situation was reversed, you all would STILL blame Kevin.

No integrity you say? This man did everything he could to shield his boys from the public eye. An appalling role model? Ok, I guess. Perhaps disobeying court orders and running amock around town all night in the wee hours of the morning would deem him more ‘role model’ points.

I tell ya, women, you all sure do stick together.

He is typical of a certain ‘type’ of male who sires children for the express purpose of using women, as well as for his own ego. In his case, the term “baby-daddy” can be used in the worst possible context.

I have great respect for most women. No matter what their financial or social circumstance, many women have it very tough indeed.

Those who are most ‘likely prey’ for males of K. Federline’s type, are those who are compassionate and loving. It is the loving and caring woman who is most often likely to feel responsible for males who are practiced at appealing to those qualities. Whether intellectually able or no, many women have no defences against such a predator.

Confirmed by his actions (and recorded faithfully by a dutiful media) K. Federline is not a person anyone of standing would wish to associate with. Certainly no man with dignity or self respect would wish to know the creature.

James Spears is to be commended for his diplomacy in associating with K. Federline. More than any other action, his dealings with K. Federline show his resolute and steadfast determination to help his daughter and his grandchildren, (as do those of Lynne Spears).

Read their body language. ‘Body language’ is extremely revealing.

If K. Federline had any decency or standards at all, he would not have pursued Britney as he has. His actions and attitude have, without doubt, added to her mental instability.

Whether he is a “good father” or not is irrelevant. He has (more or less) had to make some appearance of being so while the women in his life have done the real work.

As a role model for his children, he is appalling.

He is contemptible.

Have we forgotten? Britney is the petitioner in this manner. Remember that.

Both Shar and Britney are well over the age of 21 years old. Neither one were teenage mothers at the time of bearing Kevin’s children. They are hardly the victims of any sort. Please, spare me.

A Pimp can only be a Pimp with a Bottom “B”, and in these two scenarios, both women decided to “bottom” up!

Move on, live and learn. Shar lived and learned to move on, gracefully. Britney is now forced to do the same, after much heartache and pain.

If Kevin was a woman both of you would have different views. This is a modern day example of reverse sexism! Men have to pay court and custody fees all the time! God forbit Britney have to do it! Oh no!

He can only play with his children, that’s it! No child support, no health insurance, nothing, but playing with the kids and tucking them in bed! I’m afraid for Sean and Jayden because living and growing close to someone like that might make them like that too. Ever hard of the apple that does not fall far from the tree??

If anyone tells me how he is a good father, I think I’m going to puke. Good fathers do not have kids until they are sure they can look after them. Shar and Britney have fallen into this pimp’s trap. He only bursts eggs of women who can take care of his kids for him. The good thing out of this is that no other hollywood woman is ever going to get stupid and have this pimp’s kids to look after. And I know he aint dumb, he is not going to get a poor (normal) girl pregnant because she will take him to court to take care of his kids. So, I know he aint that dumb. It’s those two desparate hollywood women (Shar and Britney) who fell for that. They all fell for his suedo “good father” bull where the kids can actually go hungry with such a man for a father.