Adnan Sees His Lady Love
I guess we can all put away all those breakup news for now. Yes, Britney and Adnan are still together. If not, then they’re really good friends who just like hanging out with each other. We caught up with Adnan last night before he went to see Brit at her Summit home. He made a quick stop at the convenience store for soda and cigs on the way. He was all smiles and seemed to be in good spirits. We’re also putting together a video, so we’ll post that up as soon as it’s ready. In the meantime, enjoy the pics below!
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March 6th, 2008 at 1:40 pm
Woo Hoo! Looking good, Adnan! It’s great to see Adnan smiling. He looks awesome when he smiles.
I’m glad the rumors about the break up were false. I’ve had it with all the breakup rumors. It’s like the story of the boy who cried wolf. I won’t believe it again until I hear it confirmed from Adnan or JFX. Those rumors must get really old for them. Can you imagine having to deal with that all the time? Do other bloggers just sit around and make stuff up? Unbelievable!
Glad Adnan is doing well. Keep your chin up, Adnan. There ARE Team Adnan folks (like me) out there.
March 6th, 2008 at 2:17 pm
Seeing Adnan pimp the CA clothes is getting old, enough already. CA won’t mind if you skip one photo op with his clothes.
March 6th, 2008 at 2:51 pm
Hey, I love Adnan’s California casual look! Personally, I like it better than the gangster or hip hop look, but style is a matter of preference. I’d love to see Adnan dress preppy, as I have a soft spot for preps, but that’s not Adnan’s style and is probably too much to ask. LOL.
Adnan looks good. Adnan DOES live in CA, so why wouldn’t he rock the CA look?
JFX, don’t listen to MH. There ARE some of out here who like seeing pics of Adnan, so don’t skip any photo ops! BTW, great job on these set of pics. Awesome photos!
March 6th, 2008 at 2:55 pm
That other blog Breathelighty(sarcasm) had this video posted yesterday because he was there Tuesday night not last night JFX. Why the slow update?
I agree with Anna,good photos.
March 6th, 2008 at 2:59 pm
They can be friends and have a relationship. A good relationship needs a solid foundation and maybe that’s what they’re working on.
I doubt they suck face while her dad is around the house. I’d fear the shotgun coming out.
I think they’re building a foundation and if a real relationship comes out of that so be it, if they just end up being friends then so be it as well.
I think Lord God will remove those people from our lives who seek out negative things and have bad intentions. It doesn’t always happen right away, but it does happen.
March 6th, 2008 at 3:17 pm
I too agree with Annabelle and doc1955.
More Adnan photos and videos, please JFX.
I like everything he has worn so far. MH, I understand where you’re coming from but those clothes are not that bad. Besides, who changes their wardrobe every week? We all recycle clothes, I still wear clothes I wore 3 years ago.
Remember Global Warming! It’s not good to waste things we can reuse over and over again. Think of the environment if everyone wore clothes for 2 months, throws them away, buys new news, and keep doing that year after year.
Let’s think of the future generation here. The Sean Prestons and Jayden James’ of tomorrow will need clean air to breath.
March 6th, 2008 at 3:23 pm
Look at his skinny hairy leg. Men with legs like those tend to have stamina in you know what. Oh, he is so silly. Look at that smile! I love him.
More pix and video as soon as possible, JFX.
March 6th, 2008 at 3:37 pm
SWEET!!
March 6th, 2008 at 3:50 pm
LoL@Rehema’s comments.
March 6th, 2008 at 3:51 pm
Anyone else find it rather odd only these Britney and Adnan threads are the most commented on.
Listen to us JFX. We do not care about anyone else LoL.
March 6th, 2008 at 3:54 pm
Shake I remember watching that video on x17 of them in her room while her mother was saying goodbye. I am sure they get alone time when he visits. What does everyone else think? I think he is sucking face and other things LoL.
March 6th, 2008 at 4:03 pm
I sometimes post on the other threads!….
March 6th, 2008 at 4:05 pm
Its nice to see him smiling!!
March 6th, 2008 at 4:15 pm
The CA I’m talking about is not California casual. It’s the designer Christian Audigier. Adnan is pimping his various lines and it’s getting old. Sometimes less is more.
March 6th, 2008 at 4:17 pm
I only come to jfx for Adnan stuff, as I think most others do to. So, yes I too want more Adnan pics.
March 6th, 2008 at 4:38 pm
Adnan is ‘in love’ and it’s good to see pics with that big smile of his. I’m with you all, pro-Adnan! A nice bloke and one who is his own man, not some over polished LA product. The clothes are great fun and he wears them well.
March 6th, 2008 at 5:00 pm
Doc, I think they do get alone time and whatever they want at night, and that’s why he’s not fuzzed by this conservator-ship.
LOL @ that X17 video. What happened to that video? It’s not posted there any more. He was all up in her drawers and pink wigs!
March 6th, 2008 at 5:04 pm
I like he’s happy `in love´smile.
Oh my god, its so sweet to love somebody and be loved again..Makes every cells in your body sing
March 6th, 2008 at 5:07 pm
What happened with FPX and Adnan? No more “exclusives”. What is the connection between FPX and JFX, if any. A while back FPX told everyone to come here to JFX for updates. Why would they do that? Why do I even care. I can’t believe we all post here about this guy. A guy we don’t know and will never meet. But we do.
March 6th, 2008 at 5:15 pm
Sorry for misunderstanding you, MH. I don’t know much about fashion or the latest designers. I didn’t know Adnan’s clothes came from one designer, but that doesn’t really matter to me. I think Adnan dresses well and looks good in what he’s wearing. If it happens to come from one designer, that’s okay by me. We all have brands that we like and favor because they design things that match our personal style. Maybe because you know the designer’s lines, seeing the clothes bothers you, but for the general public who doesn’t know Christian Audigier, it’s not a big deal.
I do see your point if Adnan was wearing head to toe items from one designer– like Polo shirt, Polo pants, Polo socks, Polo shoes, Polo Sweater. That WOULD be annoying!
People harp on him for trying too hard, but if he didn’t try to dress well at all, people would harp on that and say he looks like a bum. Bottom line, Adnan looks good and makes the clothes look good. I’d like to see more pics of Adnan regardless of which designer he’s wearing.
March 6th, 2008 at 5:25 pm
Totally agree with you there MH. I only come to JFX for Adnan and Britney news, and I only post on the Adnan and Britney threads.
Doc, I don’t find it odd at all that Adnan and Britney threads are the most commented on. People feel more passion about them than the other topics. People either love them or hate them. There doesn’t seem to much in between. Where there are strong feelings, you are going to see more posts and discussion.
JFX seems to be the only place that expresses alot of pro-Adnan sentiment, so Team Adnan people feel safe to express themselves. I don’t post anywhere but here.
I quit going to FPX long ago because they never seemed to have anything new, and it seemed quite dead over there.
March 6th, 2008 at 5:33 pm
I agree Annabelle, FPX is quite dead.
I don’t think Adnan can win with the wardrobe. They bashed K-Fed for his b-boy style.
I slightly admire Adnan for staying true to his uniqueness. I thought he may have trimmed off his facial strip by now. I suppose Britney likes it?!
March 6th, 2008 at 5:37 pm
MH, I post about Adnan, a guy I don’t personally know and will probably never meet because he’s the underdog and he seems like a decent guy. Many other people who don’t know him either say terrible things about him, and I just want to put it out there that there are people on his side.
The people who seem to personally know Adnan have only had good things to say about him. I haven’t read any posts that said they personally know Adnan and thought he was a horrible person. All the haters seem to be people who don’t know him.
Plus, posting about Adnan is fun! I admit it’s a guilty pleasure of mine. I’d much rather post positive things than negative things, since there already so much negative out there in the world.
March 6th, 2008 at 5:41 pm
LOL, Doc. Ahhh yes. The infamous facial strip. I’m not really a fan of it, but somehow it works for him.
Wonder if Adnan will start a trend. If we start seeing lots of guys walking around with a strip, we’ll have our answer!
March 6th, 2008 at 5:45 pm
Again… it’s got nothing to do with his style of dress, to each his own. My point is that he’s pimping the CA lines (obviously getting paid to wear them). It’s just getting old. You’d think he could skip a day, it’s overkill.
March 6th, 2008 at 5:47 pm
So JFX… what’s to connection with you and FPX?
March 6th, 2008 at 5:50 pm
In a previous thread about Adnan, there was a big discussion about how Adnan can never go back to making a living as a street pap because of being targeted by other paps to make a story. If Adnan is being paid to wear clothes, then I’m glad for him. Adnan has had his pap career pulled out from under him. The man has to make a living somehow. Modeling clothes for some designer sure beats him selling out Brit. I commend him for that because I’m sure selling out Brit would pay more.
March 6th, 2008 at 5:59 pm
I knew you would come back with that about the clothes and $$$ LOL.
He did not have his pap career “pulled out from under him”. He chose to stay connected to Brit after she got in his car etc… He’s loving every bit of this.
March 6th, 2008 at 6:21 pm
I would be loving every bit of it too! Wouldn’t you MH! Dont hate him,congratulate him.
She’s lucky she chose him and not me. They would interview me and I would just sit there with a mile-wide smile. I would be a complete and utter fool for that woman. I would wear a potato sack and carry a jar of mayo around if someone paid me too. Who cares!
March 6th, 2008 at 6:41 pm
Doc, as always, you make me laugh, thanks! I’m not hating…I’m just letting the other poster know that her poor Adnan point of view isn’t so poor. He chose to do what he’s doing, he’s not a victim. He’s loving it!
March 6th, 2008 at 6:44 pm
Well-said MH! He could’ve severed the connection and returned to work. He admitted to loosing money that night but having the best time of his life. And so he chose pleasure over business and loving all of this.
Adnan is modeling clothes like K-Fed. I think K-Fed is somewhat jealous, he’s got a media rival now. He once bragged about how he uses the media for his gain, and doesn’t regret his marriage to Brit, but now it’s two in the game. His custody battle is weakening by the day! I knew he was using those kids for media coverage and revenge.
Annabelle, I agree with you and join you in commending Adnan for not selling Brit out but modeling clothes instead. Oh God, I want Adnan to become bigger than K-Fed without selling out or destroying Brit’s image. He is starting slowly but surely.
I don’t know about you people, but I dislike K-Fed. It’s like my second reason (besides thinking he’s a good guy) for rooting for Adnan is to erase K-Fed off the map. It disturbed me very much for a man who was made rich and known by his ex to try to destroy his ex’s image.
Dear God, Team Adnan!
March 6th, 2008 at 6:49 pm
LOL @ doc, man!
March 6th, 2008 at 7:07 pm
I disagree Rehema
Why hate Kevin? Thats almost as pitiful as hating Adnan. I do not think K-fed is not using the kids for anything. He has conducted himself in a very mature manner ever since the split. Lets not forget, this man has kept and shielded his children,or at least tried to, from the media completely. His only foul move was in the beginning when he took photos with kori,brit and the doggy. He was new to the game at that point,since I’m sure he has learned how this industry will chew you up and spit you right back out. I don’t dislike K-Fed. Why? Because,if you take a moment and review any footage from the so-called marriage ceremony of him and Britney. Look at the look in her eyes. It is unforgettable. She loved that man with every fiber in her body. Review it, you will see. It is unfortunate those two were perhaps too young to appreciate marriage and make it through the hard times. Kevin is not perfect, but neither is Britney. Yet still, they could have made it work. Yea so he left his pregnant girlfriend and her family to enjoy the high life which in the end came tumbling down. That is Life. We all pay for our mistakes one way or the other. In the end, they both have life long regrets about how the whole thing went down I am sure. Memories of the heart that will never go away. That is what life after divorce with children does to anybody.
On a lighter less sentimental note, I’m here strickly for the comedy relief
That and in hopes one day Britney will fall in love with my writing style and jump into my virtual email car. We’ll ride off in the sunset and live happily ever after.
It can happen ya know!
March 6th, 2008 at 7:48 pm
Ha ha. So you’re a dreamer, Doc? Dream big! I always say.
I recently saw video with clips from Brit’s and Kfed’s wedding. I cried when I saw that. Britney really did love him. It was written all over her face. She was so beautiful and happy. It’s sad how things had turned out between them.
That said, just because Britney has liked both Kfed and Adnan that doesn’t make them both equally worthy of our fan-dom. I’m with Rehema about disliking Kfed. As a woman with children, I HATE what Kfed did to pregnant Shar Jackson with whom he already had a child. That was wrong and unforgivable in my book. I could never be a fan of a man who did that to the mother of his children and while she was pregnant to boot! That was a slimeball thing to do. That and the fact that Kevin doesn’t appear to want to work or do anything except live off Brit’s money doesn’t score him any points with me.
I give Kfed (or actually Kfed’s lawyers and team) credit for the positive changes he’s made cleaning up his act, shielding the boys, staying out of trouble, working with Brit’s family, etc. I doubt Kevin thought to do all that on his own. He’s got a good lawyer and a good team, and unlike Britney during the Sam era, Kevin actually appears to be listening to their advice. It has worked to rehabilitate Kfed’s public image. Left to his own devices, I don’t think we’d have seen all the changes we’ve seen. He does seem to be a stand up guy now, so I applaud him for that, but I am still no fan of his.
I’m Team Britney & by association Team Adnan— NOT Team Kfed.
March 6th, 2008 at 8:03 pm
me too !!! I’m Team Britney & by association Team Adnan
March 6th, 2008 at 8:10 pm
Doc, are you saying that K-Fed did not try to destroy Brit’s image? He branded her a bad mother. Or are you agreeing with K-Fed in thinking that she is a danger to her children? Do you really think Brit can harm her kids? Do you think it’s fair she does not see her kids and yet pays c/support and his lawyers? That’s why I distaste K-Fed. He’s destroyed her image which her parents are rehabilitating now. He IS Doc, using the media coverage surrounding the custody for his financial gains and career ambitions. Can you seriously deny that, Doc?
I don’t hate him as a person for using the media for his career ambitions and financial gain. I HATE THE FACT THAT HE DOES ALL THAT AT THE EXPENSE OF HER IMAGE. HAD BRITNEY BEEN BRANDED A ‘GOOD MOTHER’, DO YOU THINK K-FED WOULD GET WHERE HE IS? OH HELL NO! Think Doc, this was a calculated manipulation from K-Daddy’s team. Let’s wait for the Sands deposition. If we can only have the intelligence (dirt) from the Kaplan circle, I’d have my proof. Dirty dirty dirrrrty stuff.
Kevin might have wanted the high life from Britney but he did AVOID his marriage. That chap said that whenever he and his wife had issues, he would go out. There is no way anyone can work that one out. He kept mumbling about her hormones instead of doing something like calming her down like Adnan did at that crazy courthouse scene.
Of course Britney was happy at the wedding because she wanted to get married (she proposed) and her dream was coming true. She had already tried out “wedding” with J. Alexander as proof she wanted to get hitched.
I do not think she loved him with every fiber in her body. She thought she loved him. She fell in love with his “good father” facade and thought he was a keeper. Shar J. did the same exact thing. That is falling in love with a man’s way of loving his kids. But those were HIS kids, that was not Britney. I think Kevin was resisting that with Shar and he resisted with Britney. I think he wants women to like him for him not for his love of kids.
What we need to ask ourselves is: What was Kevin’s reason for ‘falling’ for Britney? Nothing but a desire to live a high life and then avoid the marriage. After the divorce, he started tearing her image a part.
March 6th, 2008 at 8:13 pm
Kevin not work? One Tree Hill isn’t working?
Remember he has had to essentially be a full-time dad to two children under 5. Should he be out working? If reversed, women would appauld his ability to stay-at-home. I think people are being completely irrational by thinking he is solely living off Britney’s money.
Men cheat on their pregnant wives and girlfriends everyday. Men cheat everyday. That’s what we do. Women do it too. Doesn’t make him special and definitely should not deem him as slimeball of the decade. We all make mistakes.
So credit Kevin’s team for cleaning up his image. Britney, who has access to 20 times as much money, also had her chance to completely do a 360. What it all boils down to is personal choice. Kevin did not have to listen to the advice of the lawyers and advisors, but he did. Britney did not. Let’s be rational and look at the facts.
March 6th, 2008 at 8:28 pm
Rehema,
Kevin does not and never has had enough POWER to destroy Britney’s entire image. To destroy an international superstar’s image, one must be very powerful. That, he is not. He did not “destroy” her image, no one has. She still, even today, has hundreds of thousands or more of very loyal fans.
Naturally, all is never fair in love and war. No one knows the intricate details of the games played by each side. What we do know is what we have all witnessed as true events. I’m not going to list all of the events here, but basically, Britney did not play her cards right to protect her image. It is very unfortunate that it has become obvious she was completely self-sabotaging herself, without anyone’s help!
Regarding the wedding in Vegas: and remember I’m saying this as a Britney fan. Do you Really think Britney was in her right above-the-influence mind in Vegas? Please tell me you don’t believe that.
Regarding Kevin not wanting marriage: There has been written publications where Shar has stated numerous times Kevin wanted to get married. It was her, a child of two divorced parents, who was afraid of marriage and wanted to hold off. Her words exactly “If we would have been married, I don’t think anything would have been different, marriage would have just added to the situation”
Regarding Kevin partying: Yes he partied hard with his friends, smoked a little green, and left the scene after him and Britney argued often. As immature as it is, that is what young fellows do, especially those who have not witnessed their own parents successfully keep a marriage together. Not making excuses for the lad, but he was not willing to give up partying after being married and a father. Big Deal. Is it right ? NO. Do THOUSANDS of men do the same thing everyday. Yes.
Here’s my final point: Why spend any energy whatsoever hating Kevin. Life will pay you back for every single unjust thing you do. It never fails. I am sure there have been hundreds of days where Kevin has reflected on his prior choices, hating how he hurt Shar, hating how he hurt his children, hating how he even hurt Britney at times. Vengenance is surely not ours to have. I say this because I guarantee you, as sure as some of you all have professed your love for Adnan, as soon as something happens if they remain together, you same Team Adnans will turn right around, and blame him. Britney is a legal adult. Hold her responsible and accountable for her life.
That is why she is where she is now, because she’s never had to be accountable for anything.
March 6th, 2008 at 8:49 pm
He did not have to be a full-time dad to two children under 5. He has fought to be that and fought dirty, consumed with a sadist desire for revenge. He was praising her motherly instincts even when she drove with Sean P. on her lap. After that he impregnated her even more with Jayden J. If he had any worries about her not being a good mother, why did he impregnate her with Jayden? Is that what good fathers do? Add to the problem? No! He was consolidating his grip on Brit.
March 6th, 2008 at 9:15 pm
LoL LoL LoL LoL LoL
I apologize Rehema, but you are really tickling my fancy beyond words.
He “Impregnated” her. As if Britney wasn’t laying right there throwing it back to him. No, Kevin “Impregnanted” her. That damn Impregnantor!
Why did he impregnate her you may ask? So what’s a man to do? Refuse consumating with his own wife? LoL! This man can’t win. First he marries her, then he has the NERVE to have sex and IMPREGNANTE HER!
LETS HANG HIM!!!!
March 6th, 2008 at 10:06 pm
Doc, I concede. She did not play her cards right to protect her image. But there is no denying that Kevin branded her a crazy, bad mother. Have you forgotten the bi-weekly drug/alcohol tests? Adnan said she does not even drink excessively. He saw her drink two or three times. But yes, Kevin made sure she was subjected to alcohol and drug tests even when he was smoking green! That hypocrite! Since there is no evidence of that, now she has mental treatments and evaluations! Personally, I do not think she has a mental illness. They have her where they wanted her but I think she will prevail.
I don’t agree when you say she has never had to be accountable for anything before this. I have yet to see a human being who’s never held accountable for anything. She has been held accountable to a high standard for all her career life. Have you ever been asked to be a public role model?? Try that and come tell me.
Doc, laugh it’s funny but let me tell you. If he was a good father, he would have suggested birth control or worn protection after that Sean P. incident. Of course he did not and kept on consummating with his wife. Is that what responsible people do? This is why I love Adnan; he has refrained from impregnation at a time like this when her motherly skills are under question. But does he not consummate with her? Yes, he does. That’s what a responsible person does. Kudos Adnan!
March 6th, 2008 at 10:38 pm
“I don’t agree when you say she has never had to be accountable for anything before this. I have yet to see a human being who’s never held accountable for anything. She has been held accountable to a high standard for all her career life. Have you ever been asked to be a public role model?? Try that and come tell me.”
Rehema, excellent arguement there. And no I have not been a public role model, nor been asked to, but let’s say for instance I was, or Chose to be one, because I believe at some point, people are allowed to ‘choose’ what they want to be.
So, if I were one, there are certain unwritten rules that I must realize I have to abide by. Knowing I am not perfect, I will in fact make an oops every so often, more often than none.
I can not completely and entirely defend the K-fed lawyer camp, but I also can not completely disagree with some of their tactics to make this a win/win situation for their client. That is their job. If I, on the other hand, were indeed the Plaintiff, I assure you, I would listen to my team and also abide by some of the unfair and unjustified rules, like, not going out at 2am to the gas station on a more than regular basis. I think that is pretty fair and reasonable. You don’t think? But then again, remember, I’m not public dual-time impregnanted person, what do I know.
At any rate, speaking as a father who loves children, I would not regard my 2nd born son as an “incident” but rather another blessing. Again, you are acting as if those children were made by Kevin alone. I’m sure Britney knows how to prevent pregnancy as well. Obviously they have a great sexual chemistry and then came Jayden.
So this is why you love Adnan. Because he has refrained from impregnation at a time like this.
Really? So IF she ever gets pregnant, god forbid. It is SOLELY the fault of Adnan’s SCHEME to impregnant her. For Britney has NOTHING to do with her own impregnantion.
Do you realize how ridiculous that sounds?
March 6th, 2008 at 11:22 pm
Doc, the Sean P. incident I referred to was the driving of that baby on a lap. No way, kids are blessings. What I mean is that after that mishap of driving with a child on lap, if he had any objections to her mothering skills, he should have prevented another pregnancy. Why did he want to have more kids with a person he thought was a bad mother? Doc, he was praising her on TV for being a good mother then. That’s how twisted this is.
What I really want to say is that it is way past time for him to cry over how she is bad mom. We passed that point when he decided to have a second child with her after seeing what she did with the first.
Why stand up for the kids now when they have divorced? That’s the sinister element to all of this. Kevin is sour.
If Adnan gets her pregnant at this time when her motherly skills are under fire, I would not put blame on him. Why? Because here he is (like K-Fed was) praising her skills with kids. WHAT I WOULD BLAME AND DISTASTE HIM FOR IS IF THEY BREAK-UP AND THEN HE CRIES HOW BRITNEY IS NOT A GOOD MOTHER. HOW HIS CHILD IS NOT PROTECTED AROUND HER. HOW SHE MIGHT HARM THE KIDS.
Doc, does that not sound ridiculous? Do you see nothing wrong with such claims? Do you not see the sinister element?
March 7th, 2008 at 12:09 am
I think it is ridiculous for you or anyone else to think K-Fed was out to attempt to make Britney appear as an unfit mother. I believe the last thing he ever wanted her to do was to shave her head, use umbrellas, gallivant around town at odd hours, flash her va-jay-jay, the list goes on…
I think it is ridiculous for you to assume that that Kevin was awarded full custody solely based upon Kevin’s teams accusations. They, along with her assistant, had more than sufficient proof of some sort of improper environment.
I think it is MORE than ridiculous for you to sit here and defend her. Regardless of my diehard loyalty, the facts remains the facts. Kevin is not the sole reason for Britney’s current situation. Which leads me back to a few prior posts regarding accountability. Until she understands how and what things she has to be accountable for, she will never make rational decisions. I believe she is beginning to learn more everyday about accountability.
People like to endorse Lutfi, Federline, and Adnan as enablers. The truth is some of her biggest enablers are her own ‘biggest’ fans.
March 7th, 2008 at 2:06 am
All the examples of umbrellas, out at odd hours, flashing, head shaving, do not show that she is unfit to care for the kids. I have seen videos of Britney caring for her kids and I saw a good mother. I don’t know about you but Kevin was out there making Britney appear as an unfit mother. How do you think he is presenting his case in this custody battle? Showing her as a good mother to gain more custody?
What exactly could be improper at Brit’s house? A mother naked in front of kids who are too young to remember this? My God, Sean is 2, Jayden is 1.
I believe she has been making rational decisions before this but you have to remember motherhood accountability is new to her. It’s not like she was a mother before Sean and Jayden. So you think Kevin is actually teaching Britney parental accountability? Accountability for two kids for which he contributes nothing financially? Is this the kind of person who should teach parental accountability? Lord, God help us!
In my book, Britney has shown more parental accountability than Kevin. Kids don’t eat hugs, tacks into bed, plays, they eat food which is bought by mommy’s money. Kids sleep in a house that was bought by (mommy’s money) or money gotten from being associated with mommy. If that ain’t parental responsibility and accountability, then I don’t know what that is.
Look, had Britney been a regular woman working as a dance instructor; Would Kevin as a dancer have agreed to have two children with her (not forgetting he already had two)? In my mind, NO. Kevin is not stupid. He would NOT want that “financial responsibility and accountability” added on his burdens. But he agreed to have kids with a RICH Britney who would be held “accountable.” This man knows how to AVOID responsibilities and to think that it is him who is teaching Britney parental accountability is beyond. Shar J. never asked for C/support from him. There he was again, made sure she makes enough to take care of that responsibility before getting her pregnant. Where is the parental financial accountability?
As a fan, I do not understand what I’m enabling Britney with. LOL. Deciding to waste my money on her music instead of wasting it on another artist who is boring, content, and confirmed? NO. I work hard for mine and I won’t spend it on some boring artist who won’t need “enablers” because he/she learned accountability and does everything right. It takes more than just music to win me over. Britney has music and an art to her personality; the two things I value in artists.
March 7th, 2008 at 3:29 am
Doc, this is in response to your comment at 8:13pm March 6. I was prepared to lay you into for saying “Men cheat on their pregnant wives and girlfriends everyday. Men cheat everyday. That’s what we do” and for questioning the rationality of supporting Adnan but not Kevin. But after reading your subsequent posts, I thought the better of it because you have raised some good points (though I don’t agree with everything you wrote).
I was going to list the things that Kevin did wrong that I didn’t like, but you are right. Every one makes mistakes. Even Britney has made mistakes. For whatever the reason, be it drugs, mental disorder, immaturity, or whatever, Britney has not made good choices about certain things. I wouldn’t have done the things that Britney has done to lose or endanger her kids, but I can still cheer her on and hope that she gets her life together. I can still enjoy hearing about her life. Though she is flawed and has made mistakes, I am still a fan of Britney’s.
For every reason I was going to list against Kevin, I could think of another person I liked who had committed a similar offense who I have remained a fan of or a friend with. I can’t explain to you why I want to cheer one person on and not another. I guess I like who I like, rational or not. For some reason, I just don’t like Kevin. Maybe it’s a vibe, instinct, or something intangible, but I have not been impressed with what I had seen of him during their marriage and during past interviews. He has just rubbed me the wrong way. Though I dislike him, I don’t feel any hatred toward him at all. I always liked how he allowed the Britney’s folks to see the grandkids. Children benefit from a relationship with their grandparents. I do wish him well in his life and would never wish ill will on him. He is after all the father of Britney’s kids. I just chose not to be a fan of his.
So the only conclusion I can make is that my reasons for being a fan of Adnan and Britney and not Kevin are NOT rational. If I were thinking perfectly rationally and only wanted perfect people to support, I wouldn’t be a fan of Britney or Adnan either. I am still Britney fan (however irrational that is), but I don’t have blind devotion. I see where poor choices have been made, and ultimately, a person is responsible for themselves. I do make an exception for certain mental illnesses. Mental illness can severely impact a person’s reasoning and decision making.
You are right, if Adnan screwed Brit over, I wouldn’t be on Team Adnan any longer. Maybe that makes me a fair-weather Adnan fan. But since Adnan hasn’t done anything to hurt Brit, I am still firmly on Team Adnan.
I disagree that fans are enablers to bad behavior. I don’t think celebrities live their lives or make major life choices based on what their fans say. If Britney had been listening to her fans, she would have shown up to her custody hearings and had a huge comeback by now. We fans may buy a celebrity’s music or see their movies, but we aren’t responsible for head shaving, umbrella bashing, baby lap driving, pantiless photos, refusal to go to custody hearings, etc. any more than Kevin is. Some really die hard fans would support and defend Britney no matter what she did, but that doesn’t make them enablers or responsible for her behavior. Come on now. Let’s be rational, Doc!
So maybe fan-dom is a little bit like love. It comes from the heart more than the head. It is irrational and fickle. It can run deep and last a lifetime, or it can wither and turn cold. It can inspire great passion as seen from the heated posts between you and Rehema. Rehema is clearly a passionate person. Bet that goes for the bedroom too, Rehema!
Maybe we can agree to disagree about Kevin, so we can get on with our daily business of supporting Britney, Adnan, JFX, and/or whoever we choose to cheer on and support. Go Team Britney! Go Team Adnan! Go JFX!
Now let’s play nice. Can’t we all just get along?
March 7th, 2008 at 3:50 am
MC, I don’t know what the connection is between JFX and FPX, but I imagine that being a pap in Hollywood is like Survivor. It’s a dog eat dog world and paps and agencies probably have alliances and enemies. Maybe certain paps working together can get a bigger piece of the profit pie than one pap working all alone. I don’t know if JFX and FPX agencies are associates or allies or if they are competitors who just happen to both be pro-Adnan.
I have heard rumors of paps fighting and vandalizing each other’s cars. Not sure how true those are, but I imagine it’s a jungle out there and a strong tribe has a better chance against the competition. Maybe it’s not a full blown business association. Maybe they’re just a bunch of dudes who are all friends and like to hang out with each other in their off time. Who knows?
I don’t really care either way what the relationship between JFX and FPX is, just as long as they keep up the good work providing us with Adnan and Britney news, photos, and videos.
March 7th, 2008 at 4:12 am
Don’t you dolls think for one moment we aren’t getting along because we disagree or debate! I love women who can articulate their feelings in type.
March 7th, 2008 at 4:17 am
My final point:
We never know EVerything. We can assume we do, but we don’t because we are not living these peoples lives. We know what the media portrays or wants us to know. Therefore, how can we actually DISLIKE or hate someone when we don’t fully understand the situation.
Bet your bottom dollar the media is not done tearing Adnan to pieces. They will do everything in their power to make you ASSume he is the bad guy. So just as those of you who hate Kevin now, trust me, you will surely be hating Adnan in the near future.
March 7th, 2008 at 9:19 pm
Annabelle, I do not like the way Kevin lets Britney’s parents see the kids at HIS home. Why his home alone? If he is such a good parent who wants grandparents into those kids lives, HE SHOULD LET THE KIDS VISIT THEIR GRANDPARENTS & EXTENDED FAMILY IN LOUISIANA. Why is he opposed to that? That man wants total control of the kids. He needs a real rude of awakening that those are not his clones. He had them with somebody else and if he can’t take it, he should have gotten a serogate mother like Michael Jackson.
I’m passionate about Britney because I’ve never in my life come across a person of her means who has been served with such injustice, on all ends. Her kindness has done her a disservice and even if she is going through all this, I still want her to stay true to her kindness. She scores more points with me when even after what Kevin has done to her, she can still give a regular guy like Adnan a chance. This woman has a big heart!
March 7th, 2008 at 9:44 pm
Doc, I won’t hate Adnan if he breaks up with her. I won’t hate him if he cheats on her, fell out of love with her or lied to her. He is only human.
I would dislike him though, if he brands her a bad mother (post break up) after praising her motherhood on TV numerous times (pre-break up). That’s why I dislike Kevin. It’s that hidden agenda and a thirst for revenge. I like people who are straight with each other like Adnan has been with Britney. He told her straight out that Sam and Alli were not good people to surround herself with at a time when they were her only close confidants. He knew she could’ve breaken up with him for that but he took his chances. There he was on ET saying that stuff and then we saw him at Britney’s with Sam and Alli. He wasn’t scared of them! At this point, he thinks she is a good mother and he sleeps with her (sleeping makes babies). That tells me he thinks she is good enough of a mother to have kids with. BUT LET HIM TRY THE KEVIN CRAP AFTER A BREAK UP! I won’t see him eye to eye on that one!
March 8th, 2008 at 1:10 am
You aren’t the only one who thinks Kevin is shady. I think him and his lawyer has had an agenda since day one. But I think it’s all going to come out in the open. Hopefully Michael Sands was able to shed light on many issues … and if things dont get aired out now .. maybe in the future they will. But yes, I don’t think Kaplan or Kevin’s hands are clean!
March 8th, 2008 at 1:40 am
Rehema says: ‘I’m passionate about Britney because I’ve never in my life come across a person of her means who has been served with such injustice, on all ends. Her kindness has done her a disservice and even if she is going through all this, I still want her to stay true to her kindness. She scores more points with me when even after what Kevin has done to her, she can still give a regular guy like Adnan a chance. This woman has a big heart!’
You will never convince me in a million years that Britney is a complete victim in this whole ordeal. If anything, I believe she is at least 50% , if not more, responsible for everything that has taken place. And should be held accountable for HER decisions.
And in my opinion, anyone who thinks otherwise, fan or not, is being completely irrational.
March 8th, 2008 at 1:44 am
Rehema says: Annabelle, I do not like the way Kevin lets Britney’s parents see the kids at HIS home. Why his home alone? If he is such a good parent who wants grandparents into those kids lives, HE SHOULD LET THE KIDS VISIT THEIR GRANDPARENTS & EXTENDED FAMILY IN LOUISIANA. Why is he opposed to that? That man wants total control of the kids. He needs a real rude of awakening that those are not his clones. He had them with somebody else and if he can’t take it, he should have gotten a serogate mother like Michael Jackson.
Are you joking? Besides the obvious security, liability, and ORDERS FROM THE COURT that prohibit each parent from allowing the children to go out of state, — KEVIN has every right to determine WHERE his children have visitors.
How do you even know the grandparents WANT the kids in Louisiana. Britney sure as hell can’t be there.
This is the most absurd and ridiculous assumption you’ve made thus far Rehema. You are continuously assuming, when neither you or I KNOW FOR SURE the concrete facts. You are solely basing your feelings on your own ASSUMPTIONS and conclusions. Many of which are extremely exaggerations of the truth.
March 8th, 2008 at 3:16 am
KLM, this conservatorship will leave no stone unturned. The truth will finally come out and the those wolves will be exposed.
March 8th, 2008 at 3:30 am
Doc, I might be irrational sometimes but you can’t deny that fact that it’s Britney’s kind heart that’s coming back to bite her. She is too much of a good person with a big heart! Even Justin Timberlake admitted so on Oprah.
Kevin and Britney have a right to decide where their kids should have visitors. I think nothing against that. What I’m against is the way Kevin refuses to have those kids visit their grandparents in Louisiana. Lynne Spears asked him if she can have her grandkids for a certain holiday with family in Louisiana and he refused. Britney can be in Louisiana if she wants she just chose not to. Jamie Lynn lives there and will raise her kids there. The place is safe, they live in a mansion.
Remember when Kevin raise hell on Britney for taking the kids with her to Las Vegas? Yet he took them there on a separate trip and celebrated his birthday with Shar and his mom. I heard he will celebrate his 30th b’day soon and I’m waiting to see where he will take those kids. That hypocrite! He wants total control over those kids. He is going to raise sissies, watch. You can not protect kids from the real world they will have to live in.
March 8th, 2008 at 3:39 am
I don’t know if you can protect your children too much. Today’s society is cruel and unpredictable. You do watch the news, right?
As a parent to a young boy, I do protect him the very best I can. He will not grow up a sissy, but he is very well protected. Children are growing up way to fast in society today. Children need to be allowed to be just that, children. Many people can take the blame for that … parents, schools, tv … The world is a scary, scary place.
Sorry about that tangent … I just had to say that. It really has nothing to do with Britney or Kevin … and was not meant to defend either. Just my opinion!
March 8th, 2008 at 4:50 am
Yeah, one can protect his/her child too much. People take their kids with them to restaurants, malls, playgrounds, anywhere. Kevin does not want Britney to take them their, he wants those kids confined at home. He is “protecting” them from the restaurants, malls, boats, planes, and things like those. The whole idea of taking kids and adults to such places is to get out of the house and go out into the open space and enjoy ourselves.
Those kids will never do things like camping, fishing, hiking, or visit a restaurant or mall with Kevin as father. He will argue that the media will be there and therefore they need protecting. He allows them their evening rides in their toy cars where the media shots them anyway. Why can’t he just let them ride their toys inside his house perimeter where nobody will take pictures?? Even him, in his sick twisted mind knows that there is no such a thing as protecting them from the media. There is only one thing and that is control. He knew he was having kids with a celebrity. Why didn’t he think it through before he laid down? No, ma’am. He was only thinking about how she would be able to support those kids for him. And to think of him teaching her parental accountability is an insult!!!
I like the style Britney was raising her kids with cameras in their faces. Once they get exposed to that, they get used to it, and soon it would not bother them. It’s called adaption and resilience.
It’s the parents fault they allow the TV stations to raise their kids for them. If a TV is good enough for the parent, it’s good enough for the kid. Otherwise, they should not have TVs to start with if they feel the TVs are doing harm to their kids. But for someone (Kevin) to think that a mall, a restaurant, a boat, a plane, a car, a camera guy can do harm to a child is ridiculous.
March 8th, 2008 at 2:17 pm
Doc, I was going to respond to Rehema’s comment about Kevin not letting the kids go to Lousiana, but you beat me to it. Rehema, I’m going to have to agree with Doc on this one. I don’t fault Kevin for not allowing his kids to go to Louisiana for all the reasons Doc listed.
Brits children are very young. Young children require ALOT of care and constant attention and vigilance because at that age because they don’t know enough to not stick a finger into an electrical outlet or not go into a pool when no one is around because they can’t swim. Even if you tell them something a dozen times, they might still do something and get hurt if you are not watching them.
Maybe Kevin did not feel comfortable having them be so far away from him for several days in an environment he is not completely sure is baby proofed or baby safe. Or perhaps he didn’t want to go to Lousiana himself and he simply didn’t want the kids away from their parents because they might be scared. Maybe he asked the kids, and the kids didn’t want to go because they didn’t want to leave their daddy or preferred to spend that holiday with their dad and friends at home. There could be many reasons he didn’t allow them to go to Lousiana. I don’t think that decision makes him a bad person.
I know I wouldn’t allow my kids at that age to go to another state with their grandparents if I or my husband was not going to be there with them. There will be plenty of time for the kids to visit the Louisiana home when they are older and things have stabilized. I have no doubt that Britney’s boys will visit their new cousin from Jamie Lynne some day in Lousiana. They’ll work something out.
I feel bad for the boys. Kids should be able to go to the playground and enjoy the outdoors. I am with you on that, but the crush of paps is probably very scary to them because they don’t understand what is going on. If Kevin takes them out alot, people would jump on his back for exploiting his kids and exposing them to paps. If he keeps them home, then he’s not giving them a normal childhood. It’s very sad that the boys can’t go out and do what other kids do. I feel for them because I don’t know if is even possible at this point to give them a “normal” childhood.
March 8th, 2008 at 9:11 pm
Annabelle, How do you know the Louisiana mansion is not child safe?? Why would the grandparents want to bring their grandkids in an unsafe environment?? You are talking like Jamie and Lynne have never raised kids before.
It is not because Kevin thought the kids would be scared without their parents that he refused them to go to Louisiana. He goes out of State and leaves those kids with nannies for days. Those kids are very used to their grandparents and I don’t think they would be scared to be with them in Louisiana. Kevin just wants control over the kids.
Come on! How can Kevin ask a two and one year old if they want to go to Louisiana?? And they answered back that they don’t want to part with their daddy?? LOL, come on now. These kids are too young to understand that question or have an answer.
What I don’t understand is why some parents find it hard to trust grandparents with their kids for days but they have no objections to trusting them with nannies for days when they are out of State?? These are grandparents who want to spend time with and take care of their grandkids for FREE. Nannies or daycare centers won’t take care of kids if you don’t pay them. A lot of accidents happen at daycare centers and in-nanny care too. For the most time, kids are safe with grandparents who truly care and watch out.
March 8th, 2008 at 9:32 pm
Kevin started all of this. How could he see wrong in a mother (Britney) taking her kids to a playground?? He is going to make his kids pay a price (never have a normal childhood). I understand he thinks he is doing all of this to provide them with “normal” but he will find out that that’s not how to go about it. If the media jumps on his back for exploiting his kids by taking them out, that would be nobody’s fault but Kevin’s. He started all of this drama.
The paparazzi crush would not scare those kids if they are with someone familiar with them. That pap crush would especially not scare them if they got used to it (Britney was letting them get used to it). I have seen many pap videos of Britney with her kids and they never looked scared of the paps. Sean was looking at them with a curiosity and interest. He did not understand what the fuss was about but never SCARED.